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Disastrous Sex Mistakes Men Make
Roberto Bell
If you're looking for some opinion on how to make your bedroom activities go with a bang, follow our easy tips for sexual success!

First Sex Mistake

Pushing your partner to do anything she isn't comfortable with. So, if you've been considering trying the outrageous sex positions adopted by some porn stars, forget it! Begin from a more realistic place: think what she wants. Being sexually comfortable means two things for a woman: first of all, she has to be physically comfortable. That might mean she isn't going to feel too happy if you ask her to stretch her legs behind her head while you have sex. It might also mean that you have to avoid any position that gives you the deepest thrusting, because your penis might bang her cervix and give her some fairly serious discomfort. Second, she has to feel emotionally comfortable. So if you have sex with her like one of those porn stars might, she isn't going to be too cheerful either, and you're not likely to be invited back to bed any time soon. This includes: wanting to ejaculate over any part of her body without her complete agreement, using sexy language that is disrespectful to her, wanting to smack her ass if she isn't into that sort of sex play, and thoughtlessly treating her like an impersonal sex object rather than your much loved lover.

Second Sex Mistake

Being too much of a gentleman. There's an old saying: "A gentleman takes his weight on his arms." If you think this and other such quaint customs are the best way to behave during sex in the man on top position, did you ever think to ask your partner what she requests? A lot of women like to feel the weight of their man on top of them during lovemaking. They explain this by saying it makes them feel safe and secure, or they say they just like to feel the energy and power of their man in this position.

Yes, if you're a lot heavier than she is, you might squash her, so use some judgement, but generally, in the man on top position, let her feel your weight! And in all sex positions, remember to ask her what she likes!

Third Sex Mistake

If she's in the woman on top position, don't just lie there like a log when she's enjoying herself - match her rhythm and pace, have fun, be adventurous and enjoy each other's bodies. If she's riding you, remember that you can still thrust during sex in this position. You can thrust your hips to match her actions, you can raise your knees to vary the direction at which your penis penetrates her vagina, and you can embrace her breasts and clitoris if she's looking towards you while you have sex.

Remember that you don't like her lying motionless under you during man on top sex, so in this position, return the favour and thrust yourself!

Fourth Sex Mistake

Being too aggressive during sex. While some women like strong sex, remember that for a woman, sex tends to be something loving and she'd like you to treat it that way too! That means not pounding away in her vagina without having her implicit agreement, not being selfish (e.g. having an orgasm yourself but not bothering to give her one), and not throwing her around forcibly during sex.

If you want to show how great a lover you are by being a bit firm, do it with firmness and kindness, rather than by flinging her around the bed like a rag doll. Needless to say, this advice applies in any and all sex positions!

Fifth Sex Mistake

Sticking to the same old sex positions every time you make love

While you don't have to try all the challenging positions you can find on the internet, a bit of variation actually adds spice to your sex life. Even if you're extremely fond of the man on top position, for example, sex in the rear entry or side by side positions will let you see things very differently, you may well get much more aroused, and you will surely get some new and different sexual sensations! See http://www.sex-and-relationships.com/ for more information on great sex positions!

Source: http://easycontentpro.com

Rod Phillips is a counselor with www.sex-and-relationships.com..

"Disastrous Sex Mistakes Men Make"
written by Roberto Bell

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